THANK YOU!

I just want to thank everyone who has been so amazingly supportive of me in all of this. I have received such an outpouring of grace, reassurance, and encouragement which has kept me going, helped restore my faith in most of humanity, and reaffirmed by belief that I'm on the right track. Thank you all!  You know who you are!

A little about Me

OK, so.... I've been asked  WHY I am doing this. Yes, there are other ways, etc, etc.

I've been in knots since this started. Since Thursday afternoon, I knew my choices would have consequences. I have dealt with those consequences head on. This has not been an easy road for me. But it's a necessary road, one SOMEONE needs to go down.

Today especially was wrenching. Bottom line: his family IS NOT my problem. I GET it. but honestly, your elitist problems are of no concern to me. Step into the GD real world, of which you have no clue. Let me help you with that. Get a fucking job, take out a loan for school like 99% of the population already does. Get your hands dirty, PRINCESS!!!

Originally, I did it to expose truths in a situation where the truth was hidden. If you know me, you know I'm all about truth. If you don't know me, know that I ABHOR injustice, untruth, and bullshit in any form. I HATE it; no patience. This person is all about hiding. I get it but I have no respect for it.

Then other things came out; abuse VERY similar to what I'd dealt with. Again, if you know me, I am VERY outspoken for victims of abuse, having been one myself. I am a very strong woman; I can deal with a lot OF BS. Horrific BS, not just with his lovers, but with his mother as well. Sickening.

So.... IF NOT ME, WHO???????

IF NOT NOW, WHEN????????

I practice what I  preach.

And this is my problem HOW???

Had an exhausting conversation with William's eldest daughter. To her credit, she is intelligent and very loyal; traits I admire very much. The conversation was mostly very respectful on both sides. . But the arguments were completely circular and could not possibly change anything. And the amount of enabling is STAGGERING!!!!! No wonder he has never gotten better or received extensive help.

She did admit that he's an ass and does stupid stuff...A LOT, but her main concern was financial but not really for him, just the way it would affect her mom and siblings. She seems to think that if he gets hauled into court, she and her siblings will lose their ability to attend college. Interesting.

1. Absolutely NOT my problem
2. If he can afford to have 3 kids in college, he could afford to pay the bill he promised to pay.

She absolutely did not understand my stance on any of this. It's about the money, sure, but it's also about the fact that he MADE A FREAKING PROMISE!! And then turned around and disregarded it completely. Where I'm from, if you promise someone something, you honor that promise. If you can't you let them, know. You DON'T leave them hanging until the last possible moment and then just ghost. That's not how adults handle things.

the other things she fails to understand is that now I'm left with a financial judgement against me that will be on my credit score for 5-7 years! credit I am trying desperately and actively to fix. SO FRUSTRATING!!!

So this isn't JUST about the money. It's about holding someone at their word and also exposing someone for their true colors. It's also about the gut wrenching stress that I've been under throughout this whole ordeal, just dealing with HIM, his never ending lies, and his complete disregard for doing the right thing.

I will see this through.

Good for the Gander.....

Got this this morning. I find it interesting that by not paying the bill and allowing my wages to be garnished, he was perfectly OK with seeing ME and MY life destroyed. He knew exactly the consequences of his actions, or rather lack of action. 

What a piece of work. 

Stay Tuned.....

Fwd: Lisa Halpin's settlement

WM

William Mouat <wmouat1113@gmail.com>

 

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Today, 7:13 AM

You

You replied on 9/22/2017 9:46 AM.

And this, btw---

Certainly worth trying to destroy a person---

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He's Worse Than I Thought: Chapter 2

Just had a long talk with someone who used to close to Mouat. This person was so terrorized by him they still suffer from pretty extreme PTSD. This person shared some pretty heinous experiences with me; far more horrifying than I could have imagined. I kind of figured this man is a sociopath, but even I had no idea how bad he is. Out of respect for this person's fear of him retaliating, I cannot share details though I really want people to know the level of madness in this man. He preys on the weak, initially appears compassionate and kind, but soon his true colors come out and if you call him on it, the level of cruelty is unprecedented. I experienced this first-hand and the person shared similar experiences. This is level of mental illness with which I've not dealt before. Scary!!

More to come!

All Shall Know: Chapter 1

So this is the story of how William Manning Mouat, formerly of Billings, MT. and now the Education Director of the New Orleans Opera, lied to me for 4 years about paying for a nose surgery after he broke my nose. Keep in  mind, I never ASKED him to pay for the surgery; he OFFERED. Had he not offered, I would never have had the surgery.

Here are the facts: Mouat broke my nose after a night of hard drinking. It was indeed accidental, I say that is the spirit of transparency and honesty. It WAS an accident, but it was indeed his fault, and he immediately accepted full responsibility. After the nose sort of healed, there was a piece of broken bone floating around on the bridge, just under where my glasses rested. It caused me great pain and I mentioned it to him. He said, "Go get it looked at. Maybe your insurance will pay to have it fixed."

So I did. I saw Dr. Butler at Billings Ear, Nose, and Throat specialists. Dr. Butler could fix it, unfortunately my insurance would NOT cover it as they considered it cosmetic. he immediately said, "I will pay for it. Have it fixed."

So surgery was scheduled and completed. he assured me the bill was taken care of.

Fast forward 4 years to this past June!  I get served with legal papers regarding this matter. I immediately contacted him. Again, he said he would handle it so my wages would not be garnished. Great, say I, and I go about my business and we catch up a little. Share pictures of my pride and joy: my grandkids.

Fast forward AGAIN to September 12. The accountant at work informs me she has a judgement to garnish my wages. I RACKED my brain to try to figure out what this was about. I called the Credit Agency. Sure enough, Mouat has deadbeated the debt and hung me out to dry. I contacted him AGAIN. AGAIN he swore he would make sure he handled it. He did not. Luckily, I was able to get a loan from my 82 year old mother to protect my wages. The following is the ACTUAL conversations between us. HIS words. I have not embellished or changed anything.

The blue is me, the white is him. Highlighted stuff deals directly with the bill.

22/09/2013 16:04

Don't take my friend Stephen seriously. He has MS and explaining things on Facebook helps him stay sharper. He's not really trying to educate anyone.

I take few people seriously:)

Could count em on one hand.

He comes across as very arrogant but he's very sweet. He would never intentionally offend someone.

I truly don't care. In my not do humble opinion, Stephen, Gus, Matt Haney and Russ Palmer are fucking idiots and are not even worth the waste of time for me to me to be angry because they are a collective waste of humanity. On to a more pleasant topic. I will be setting stuff up at Butler's office for you tomorrow. Didn't get to it Thursday or Friday bc I was trying to get out of town. It was just a very stressful Friday bc Stef got the message and the kids and I had a really wonderful visit. Thanks for writing. I will call or email you after I talk to Butler's office. Wm

Where the hell did that come from? Jesus. Forget I said anything.

It's fine. Just tired. Talk to you later. Have a good evening. Glad things went well.

Have to get ready to get on the plane. W

You do that.

Lovely. Thanks.

What the fuck is wrong with you tonight?

I will not kiss up to no talent pricks and I fucking Matt Haney. He fucked me over two years in a row and I am tired. Is there a law that says your friends have to be my friends? I'm fine. Don't worry about it. I just need to get home and get some rest. I miss my kids.

No more to it than that. Tired. Meds are off. Just took some pills to calm down

So, sorry.

Just a little ragged emotionally.

All I said was don't let my disabled friend offend you. I didn't say a fucking thing about Matt Haney. Jesus fucking Christ. Excuse the fuck out of me for trying to clue you in to his state so he wouldn't feel like you thought he was acting like a know it all.

Ok, Lisa I got it. I understand and thank you for explaining.

Sure.

Ok, I will start over. Thanks for explaining, thanks for calling yesterday, and I apologize for the rant. Emotional roller coaster that's all.

So again, Im sorry. Flight is boarding.

27/09/2013  09:45

I spoke to Dr. Butler's office. They said they didn't need me to sign anything for payment processing. The only think I would need to sign would be a release of information, but they don't need that at all for billing purposes. You should call and talk to Eva. 238-6161

Will do. Now, what time do I pick you up on the 2nd?

Lisa

It's the 3rd. Thursday. And I won't know until the day before.

Oooo, had it in my calendar wrong. O.k. fixed it. No problem. Just gotta make sure I am in Bozeman by 1:00 p.m.

Lisa

You will be. If I have to go in early and sit for a bit thats fine.

We'll be fine Sweetie:)

02/10/2013 10:24

Lisa

Did you get my email?

17/10/2013 13:31

Lisa

Serena is way too young for you.

Yeah, but we aren't dating though:)

Lisa

But do you pick her up from preschool once in awhile and hold her hand crossing the street?

Staaaahp. Only doing the Tony Stark thing on the surface. Still nerded out. What's up?

Lisa

Feeling better?

Yep but I am broke...until tomorrow (payday) and then I will have some $$$, at least temporarily. Where are we going for our next hanging-out session? Need to try a new place, don't ya think?

We keep doing the same places. Need variety. Any place in town with Romulan Ale?

21/10/2013 10:48

Lisa

What did you do Saturday night?

Hosted Beaux Arts, after crying for 4 hours straight. I may look good on paper but am completely effed up beyond all recognition. My niece Amy thinks I should be on suicide watch.

Lisa

Because of you I had a major epiphany.

THat I suck. We already did that.

I told my family that I am not worth the space I am taking up

I am good for business and work-related stuff only.

Never to be dealt with on a personal level. I out to be locked up

Lisa

After we hung out, I went home and drank a LOT more wine. For no logical reason other than that I was in so much pain I needed to make it stop. Luckily, and for absolutely no reason, I woke up fine late Sunday. Apparantly I am an extreme empath.

ought

I know. I'm sorry. You got my blues.

Lisa

It was a good lesson for me. Now I know I can help people but I have top take the necessary precautions.

Well, thank god you have so many amazing friends that can help.

At least you can help. I can't at all. I am really sorry that I made you sick and blue. I have done nothing but made trouble for people. I am sorry.

Lisa

I know.

That is all a façade. Keeping up appearances.

It is part of my phony crap

Seriously sorry. At least your nose is fixed. I feel good about that.

Lisa

I'm not the right person to talk to regarding Jenna. Too much baggage for me there. I know your phony crap, too. And I know when you're lying to me. Always.

Suicidal. and I know. I suck

I get it.

Lisa

Is that what I said?

Cant believe how many stupid mistakes I have made. parents should have aborted me.

Only thing good about me are the kids. That is it.

Lisa

And aren't they worth trying to get all this under control?

Yes. And I apologize.

Lisa

You don't need to apologize for how I feel. That's my responsibility and I will learn to control it. Now that I know what it is.

Ok. I hope that you are feeling better.

Sorry. Really am.

Blessings Lisa.

29/10/2013 11:23

Lisa

Yo, what's up?

Staggering but on my feet. Julianna sent a text to Jenna that was Khan On Steroids. A true child of the Eugenics War. (They must be missing a capsule.) I have never seen anything quite so ferocious in my life. Wow.

Lisa

Wow.

She's got your back

Did Julianna tell you about it or did Jenna?

Julianna attacked and copied me, Mom and her brother and sister. The last part read, "Ms. Preston: Stay away from my Dad. Leave! Now!" Jenna had the audacity and ego to try to play the friend card and extend that to my family. That kid is actually about as good as Bekah. Julianna and Bekah are about on Superpower level re: protection. In fact, Julianna has been checking in with me 2-3 times a day. Remarkable child.

Lisa

That's super cool.

Good to have that kind of relationship with your kids.

OK, so we need to discuss West Side Story and shopping.

I was psychically blooded and on the ground. She kicked that bitch right in the teeth and my guess is that it hit home. Don't know though. Giving it lots of distance.

Ok. Lunch at bin around 12:30 maybe?

Lisa

Good idea. Heard from Jenna about it yet?

That works

No I think Jenna finally got as good as she gave. On my request, she will not contact me again. Just call when you get to the Bin. Will try to shield in my wounds so you don't get sick from me. Sorry that happened. If I am aware enough (which I am today) I can protect you from "psychic radiation" for lack of another analogy.

Lisa

12:30?

Yes, Admiral Bill Adama out:)

18/11/2013 09:45

Lisa

I got my apartment ap all filled out! I feel good; like there's a light at the end of the tunnel.

18/11/2013 11:27

YEA!!!!!!!!! We'll talk soon. COngrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lisa

When you free?

COuld do lunch at bin at 1:00

Lisa

I can't take full lunches anymore. I have to go to the bank.

O.k. will mgs you on break. CONGRATS on the apartment. I will help.

Lisa

I don't have it yet!! I need to get the app and stuff in before someone else gets it.

18/11/2013 13:01

Hope it works. Keep me posted.

Lisa

I'm not really sure what to do with the savings thing. I'm fine without it. Thank you so much!!!!!

I'm sorry you're having a shitty day

Not meaning to take it out on you. It isn't your fault. Good luck with the apartment. Love, Wm

Lisa

I don't mean to stress you out. Let me know if there's anything I can do.

Oh Sweetie, it isn't anything you did. I promise. I am in a world of hurt right now, and am just not getting any closure, positive or negative. You've been WONDERFUL!!!! I promise.

20/11/2013 11:43

Lisa

You blew me off for CHER? Honestly, your taste. Hope you get laid.

Not out to get laid. Don't want to put the angst of tonights 5:30-6:30 breakup/closure with Jenna (on conference call from Missoula) and my counselor at YCC on you. It would make you sick, like it did before. Just want to go to a concert, hang out and take my mind off if it. Which won't entail "getting laid" b/c I am not sexually active at all right now. That's all I got. Sorry if you are angry and let me know if the apt deposit is covered. Wm

Lisa

Doesn't change the fact that you LIE TO ME almost daily. And now, because I stood up for myself, you'll probably slander me all over town. You asked me to dinner via voice mail the other night, then, again, you blow me off. I don't really care if you get laid or not; we don't have that kind of friendship. Apparently, we don't have ANY kind of friendship. Friends don't lie. GOD, I AM SO FUCKING STUPID. How about we just have no contact for awhile.

I have not said a negative thing. Nor do intend to. And I am sorry for what I said in the past. Whether you hate me or not, I would still give you a letter of recommendation or stick up for you in the job market. Nothing will change that. You stood up for yourself. Yes, that's good. I will want to think about anything other than this shrink appointment tonight, and if that means going to a concert and not pulling you into my funk, that it not a lie. I am not out to get laid. And I will continue to help you with everything and anything you need. I handled the situation inappropriately. and for that, I deserve for you to be angry. I get it.

25 APRIL 19:45

Lisa

CONGRATS on the new gig. Very exciting. I sent you an email. PLease respond ASAP.

So glad to hear from you!!!!!! I will. I'm on ft with Nicole I will read and respond right after.

Lisa

It's not good but there;s no malice. Just ;a lack of options.

I know. I owe you a ton of money. Now I can do it.

Lisa

I got served with legal papers today.

We'll figure it out. What's your phone number?

Lisa

406-860-0485

But there's this.....

And this.

Calling you. I told Nicole I'd call her back in a bit.

My god they are cute! Beautiful.

Lisa

I think I missed your call. Just grabbed my phone

22 JUNE 17:18

Lisa

Hey have you been able to send any money to that attorney?

I'm good to go but I'm waiting to hear back from him.

Lisa

Well, I think they're talking about garnishing my wages. If they do, I'm fucked. I'll lose my apartment.

Ok please have him contact me or please email him and me and I will call him tomorrow first thing. I don't have any meetings or anything all day.

Lisa

Can you send him an email?

Yes. I'll go back to end of April in my gmail and fire something off when I get to the office.

Lisa

Awesome! Thanks!

Sure. I thought he was going to follow up with me (alias "Bill") but I'll talk to him.

22 JUNE 19:54

Lisa

Cool

29 JUNE 16:05

Hi Lisa I called their office just now and I'm remitting a payment of $500 on the 15th of each month. Wm

Lisa

Perfect! Thank you!

TUES 13:00

Got your text. Up to my eyeballs. Sorry. yes, I am working on it with Rodd. I'm in severe financial hardship myself and may have to sue my own family over estate problems. No surprises there, so the payment plan for you may have to be dialed down to something I can afford. I made a HUGE payment last month. W

Lisa

Ok cool. We hadn't touched base in awhile so I just wanted to see. I appreciate it! I hope you get your stuff settled without huge problems. Estate problems SUCK!!

TUES 14:18

Well I have the best family in the world (not!) Haha!

Lisa

Same

I know. And, you're the youngest. And smartest. So then they really treat you like crap.

Lisa

I dont let it bug me. My grandkids think I'm amazing so that's all that matters.

YES!

15:32

Lisa

So my wages are being garnished now because of your NOT paying the bill you promised to pay. Now i have to absorb $400-$600 a month, which I absolutely cant, until it's paid. I have no choice but to do small claims court now and file a suit against you. Ibhave a paper trail of your promises to pay this and I never would have had the surgery if you hadnt told me you'd pay it. I trusted you and you screwed me AGAIN. And in screwing men you screwed the memory of my dad. Who you claim to hold in high regard.

I'll pay it off. I had no idea that they were going to do that and I just wrote to Rodd at the beginning of this week. Let me find out what I can do for minimum payments and I'll let you know.

Lisa

ITS TOO LATE. My company has already been served with legal garnishment papers. The only way to keep that from happening is to have it laid in full before the 25th. Otherwise I'm screwed. I can't get a personal loan right now. I won't qualify.

Ok. I'm writing to them right now. I'm sorry.

Lisa

Plus you Need to be talking to Kate at Credit services. Not Rodd

I'll talk to Kate.

It's Kerri. I'm writing to her.

Lisa

The only thing they will accept now is full payment.

I JUST talked to Kate and she said she's told you several times you need to talk to her. The y will only accept full payment now.

Ok I got it.

I'm asking her when I can call. I thought it was Kerri.

Lisa

literally the only way this cam go away is to get Credit Services $2500 before the 25th.

Ok.

Lisa

If you got a small loan and wired me the money it's done and your payments would be less than $500 a month

Ok

Lisa

I have an appointment with an attorney tomorrow to start small claims proceedings. I'd rather not but i don't know what else to do.

I get it. I'll have this resolved before the 25th, but I also understand that you're upset. She contacted me quite a few times but I did actually submit at least $600 in July. I'll try to get it figured out by end of business tomorrow.

Lisa

Yes, I upset. There is a very real possibility I won't be able to pay rent or car payment if this happens.

But i will trust you ONE last time and wait until Monday to talk to the lawyer

I'll figure out a game plan tomorrow morning and I'll call Kerri and get in touch with you. I am sorry but I know that does no good. I have been behind on a number of payments since I moved and I'm having the estate problems. It isn't an excuse. I don't want you to get hurt.

financially.

I only have a couple of appointments tomorrow so I'll be able to work on this.

I have to erase this now, but I have the numbers. I just cant read it. I'll be in contact tomorrow. Kerri has an e-mail and I'll talk to her.

Lisa

If they take 25%of my paychecks it will devastate me financially.

Why erase it?

The stuff with your dad.

I know it will. I will be working on this.

Lisa

But its true and you know it. Erasing it doesn't make it not true

Ok, I get how you feel.

Lisa

Was able to reschedule then lawyer appointment to Monday at 10:00

I got it.

Lisa

406-252-6371 is how-to reach Kate. She's up to speed and is in charge Of the account.

I will call or text you after I speak with Kerri.

THought it was Kerri, but I'll call Kate.

Lisa

Yeah. Its Kate. I just spoke with her

ok

Lisa

Cool.

She is in my phone.

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FRI 11:40 Spoke with Kate. I'll get the $2500 to her by the 21st. Call to verify our conversation if you would like to Sorry about all of this Excellent. Ok, cool. I will contact her on the 22nd to confirm payment has been made. Me too. It sucks. Ok. That works Driving on a sea bridge to mandeville so can't text anymore at the moment just wanted to give you the update Thanks Of course K, talked to Kate. She needs cash or a cashiers check on tthe 21st. Please let me know as soon as that is wired so I can talk to her again on the 21st before 5. Ok Sent from Messenger Chat conversation The end of the conversation is HIM BLOCKING ME, after having paid NOTHING!!!  I want this man exposed for what he is!  I still have a string of emails I can attach as well. Please feel free to ask questions. I will answer all in future installments and keep everyone abreast of the situation.  Oh, the missing pictures are him, and my grandbabies. The grandbabies are not included because they don't need to be involved. I will definitely post pictures of him, though.   How does one break someone's nose "accidentally" you might ask. Stay tuned.

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